Decisions..

Pre-Script: I guess most of us talk to ourselves from time to time(Not the alter ego or Multiple Personality Disorder type). Some long chats interspread over several days, at times weeks. But because we need answers to some of the questions which simply never seem to get tired of us. The worst part is, most people we go to, even with an earnest attempt cannot answer it to satisfaction. Because these are the questions which only we can answer for ourselves. I had an encounter with one such question recently. This is what I learnt.

It is yours to make the decisions. Take as long as you need to make a choice. Be the biggest spectic, get as much data as you feel the need for. Be cold and logical or fickle and emotional. Everything is your personal choice. But only until you have taken the decision. Once you have chosen a goal, you have no rights to shift the goal post while in a play because alongwith your own fate, every decision of your entwines and affects several others. Mostly the ones you most care about. So, ones you have taken a decision. Stick to it, to the very end. Maybe in the end you will realise you made the wrong decision and reached an end you didnot want to. But if keep changing your goals. You will not reach anywhere at all.

Tell me. Do you have some other take upon it..